Have you ever had someone in your life that you just wish you could take all of their pains away?? No matter how hard we try or what we do we cannot live the lives and fight the fight for others. There is someone that is really close to me and I trully do love her but she is painfully unhappy. Now me being the poster child for doing what I need to do to be happy Idk what to do for her. I encourage her, I pray for her but that is about all I can do...until she puts her own desires into actions my help can only do so much.

I will admit that there are some things in my life that I am not completely happy with but I am working to change that. I dedicate a lot of my spare time helping others, and in turn I am helping myself to be better person. "I've come to far from where I started from. No body told me that the road would be easy, but I don't believe he brought me this far to leave me." There is more work to be done for me and I know she probably has just as much potential growth as anyone else. Hopefully things will get better for her...I pray that they do...

If you all never get anything else from all my ranting and raving do know that CHANGE STARTS AND ENDS WITH YOU...



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Ms.Suga

A Man's World

Ok so everyday i have atleast one  in-depth conversation with my homegirl. It's usually via text message which as you can tell by the way i talk ends up being like 5 text pages at a time. Well on of yesterday's questions was "How old is too old for a man to still live with his mom?" Now since yesterday i've deleted my response but i wanted to share this question as well as my response.

So....let's got!!

"How old is too old for a man to still live with his mom?" To me there is no real answer for this question. I have dealt with all kinds of men from all walks of life and at some point they have given me their "story." From what i gather, on my research of men, men instinctively have the need to provide and protect. Which is why they are so territorial, jealous and sometimes pig-headed. (No fellas I am not bashing you...atleast not right this second). But it makes sense. As women we are very protective of our own which is why some mothers are so territorial, jealous and sometimes pig-headed as well. But here's the kicker...what does it take to make a man feel like a man? Besides the obvious of course.

I met a man who was 32 years old and lived with his mama. He had a fairly decent job, stayed out of trouble and was a genuinely nice guy. BUT his mama waited on him hand and foot! I had to get up out of there because he was NOT about to have me taking care of him all the damn time...So not acceptable!

Then I knew another guy age 27 who lived on the wrong side of the law but his place of residence was his moms house. He never "worked" from there but he had no other place that he called home. So does that count? Yes! he needs to have his OWN SPACE!!

It takes a man to stand his ground and hold is own. But it takes a woman to do everything else behind the scenes to give that man the mental boost he needs to continue holding is own. Think about the most powerful men  in our world, there is a woman somewhere close by to work her magic so he can show off his. From cooking, cleaning and ironing to sex, massages and a simple kiss to replace words of encouragement to remind that man that it is his world!!

So ladies lets be real...people go through hard times but a real man will make the most out of his situation and work hard to put himself in a better place. There is nothing sadder (just an expression of course there is something sadder than this) than a grown ass mama's boy who is so comfortable under mommy that he doesnt realize that taking care of me will help me take care of him in more ways then his mama is willing to acknowledge.

So kids what the lesson for today? GROW THE FUCK UP!! THEN MAYBE I CAN RESPECT YOU.

Ephipany

Ok so everytime someone has a problem they come to me. Relationships, money, life what ever their problem is they think my advice can and will help them. Granted I feel that i don't have a relationship or money, hell or a life for that matter, so why would i be one to give good advice but apparently I do because they keep coming back.

The more I think about my future and my career as a writer, especially recently, the more I think about being a columnist. Nothing major just a measly 600 words or so giving my opinion on something and everything. This way i can keep my identity as an opinionated human being and not get lost in the world of facts and lies.

So with all this being said, I am letting you all know that the Cavity Requests will be open to questions and advice. Now i will not guarantee my advice will always work in your favor but if you need it i am here to give it to you. Don't get it twisted, I will still be here to rant rave and bitch about whatever pops into my mind but I am here to help you as well.

Email any questions with as much detail as possible to MsSuga1910@gmail.com

And you will remain anonymous!!

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Ms Suga

I'm Sorry!!

Hello my sweet tooth havers!! Sorry I have been MIA for almost a month! I didn't realize it had been that long! but i'm back on point! I have a lot going on but that is no excuse! I will never leave you for so long like that ever again ok?. LoL! Dramatic huh?

Anyway! New Cavity Requests coming soon! Remember if there's anything you want me to talk about just hit me up MsSuga1910@gmail.com


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MsSuga

Really??

Ok so I know that work is scarce. and you don't have to tell me about how hard it is to find something to do for the remainder of the day. BUT having an in depth conversation about American Idol in the ladies room is not a way to pass the time! Especially in the one part of the building that echos!!

Get it in gear ladies before you screw us all over!!

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MsSuga

What the fuck is really going on?

You know what? I am sick and tired of being sick and tired! I swear to bob if one more man tells me "Your gonna make a great wife" or "You would be an awesome girlfriend" I am going to start cracking muthafucking skulls. Once again someone tells me Oh you are a wonderful beautiful, sexy woman any man would love to have u. But all they do is say it...Remember people Actions speak louder than words!! If I'm so fucking wonderful why am I still single? How is it that you can point out such a wonderful person but u don't try to claim that person for yourself. I know if I see a good person I would love to lock that in and keep them all to myself!!

Granted I am happy with myself and my life. I, like most people, do want someone to share my life with. I'm not talking about getting married right now I mean just someone to have fun with, live, learn and love with. I am however, very picky. I don't want to be in a relationship for the sake of claiming it and have my boo still off freaking every person they meet. People these days are so caught up in what others are doing they cannot seem to do what is right. Be happy with yourself not trying to get over on others.

I see how a person can be in a relationship for along period of time yet want and step to others knowing damn well they are planning on being fucked up people. I am so tired of that bullshit. I mean really?? What the fuck is really going on in your head? Why do you think that will work?!! It always turns out the same. And you wonder why no one trusts your dumb ass. Because you are a fucked up, greedy, selfish person! You really need to sit back and think about what you are doing? Think long and hard and ask yourself What the fuck is really going on?

If ya'll knew how many people have tried to be with me and get my goods like I didn't know that they were in a relationship. It's ridiculous! Go be with her why are you trying to get pussy when you wake up to, sleep next to, and get some when you want why do you need my pussy. Go the fuck away!! Honestly leave me to my destiny. Don't come fuck up my life because you aren't happy with the one you are with.

There are a lot people in this world that want the chance to get close to me. Most wont, some will but only get a half-assed friendship because I don't trust people and that one special person may slip through the cracks and we both end up fucked up people because of your selfish unhappy ass.

So I don't know what the fuck is really going on but we need to get it together!! We are on the path of destruction going no where fast! Ugh!!



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MsSuga

Life

Don't waste your time on a dead end job living paycheck to paycheck! Learn to have fun and love life. Everyday I feel like I lose part of my life sitting around here. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE working, but I am to the point where I need more. There is more to life than cubicles and calculators and not knowing what  the outside looks like on a daily basis.

I WANT TO BE FREE!! I need mind challenges and excitement, and overtime!!  Granted this is a temporary situation but everyday makes me move forward more and more to what I want to do. I refuse to be that person who lives to be 75 years old, hate my job and the end still be miserable.

So whats the point of this? Here's your dose of Suga!! Live life for you!! Be Healthy, Be Happy, Be Sane!!