Your eyes are a mirror into your soul. When people say "look me in the eye and tell me the truth," some truly can see your truth. Technically everyone can, if you know what to look for. One can have the happiest facial expression they can conjur up, but their eyes can show nothing but sadness and pain. One can also "smile through their eyes." Regardless how hard you try, physically there is always a "tell." Some have mastered hiding their inner truths. Some couldn't hide it if their lives depended on it. Either way at the right moment your inner truth can be revealed and you can have never said a word.
When my friend looks at me, there's a smile in his eyes. He tries to hide it by making jokes and turning away when i notice him looking at me, but, I see it. In the words of the ladies from Xcape- "His eyes they show me secrets that he holds deep inside." The true question isn't how he feels but how/if/when will he act on it. But i'm in no rush. Seeing the truth in those eyes is enough to make me happy.
~Ms Suga~
Friday, January 29, 2010
Friday, January 15, 2010
Advice i wish someone would've given me: Questionable "Love"
1} Have you ever been in a relationship with someone, it didn't work out but you two remain friends?
2} Do you find yourself constantly reminiscing about the good times you had as a couple?
3} Have you even considered trying to rekindle that old flame?
4} Better yet, are members of your family on good terms with the members of your ex's family and everyone
winds up at the family functions?
5} Have you noticed that it's hard for you to move on, because every time you meet someone new they either happen to know your ex or have a serious problem with your ex (and their family) still being apart of your life?
6} When the two of you are together do strangers (or people who are not in your small circle of friends) confuse the two of you for lovers?
7} Do you fight with each other and try to hurt their feelings?
8} Do you get jealous when your ex tries to move on with their life?
9} Have you met your ex's next and thought to yourself, "I look waaaaayyyyy better than that"?
10} Are you reading this blog and are thinking to yourself "Who is this bitch & why is she all in me & my ex's business?"
If you have answered yes to more than 4 of these questions more specifically #1 and # 10 then i suggest you suck it up and accept the fact that your ex is there to stay. They will always be in your life, either as a friend or as a partner. Either way they are in for the long haul and so are you. You might not see it now but that person is in your life for a reason and soon enough the truth will come to the light. Trust me when i tell you... YOU CANT FIGHT FATE! So you might as well fasten your seat belt and enjoy the ride.
xoxoxoxo
~MsSuga~
2} Do you find yourself constantly reminiscing about the good times you had as a couple?
3} Have you even considered trying to rekindle that old flame?
4} Better yet, are members of your family on good terms with the members of your ex's family and everyone
winds up at the family functions?
5} Have you noticed that it's hard for you to move on, because every time you meet someone new they either happen to know your ex or have a serious problem with your ex (and their family) still being apart of your life?
6} When the two of you are together do strangers (or people who are not in your small circle of friends) confuse the two of you for lovers?
7} Do you fight with each other and try to hurt their feelings?
8} Do you get jealous when your ex tries to move on with their life?
9} Have you met your ex's next and thought to yourself, "I look waaaaayyyyy better than that"?
10} Are you reading this blog and are thinking to yourself "Who is this bitch & why is she all in me & my ex's business?"
If you have answered yes to more than 4 of these questions more specifically #1 and # 10 then i suggest you suck it up and accept the fact that your ex is there to stay. They will always be in your life, either as a friend or as a partner. Either way they are in for the long haul and so are you. You might not see it now but that person is in your life for a reason and soon enough the truth will come to the light. Trust me when i tell you... YOU CANT FIGHT FATE! So you might as well fasten your seat belt and enjoy the ride.
xoxoxoxo
~MsSuga~
"a pessimist sees the difficulty in every
opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty." - Winston Churchill
Ok. I was reading my sisters latest blog talesofahfg.blogspot.com and this quote stuck out to me. I felt the need to write so...here I go.
I have always been a positive person, always tried to see the silver lining on every gray cloud that came my way or crossed the paths of those close to me. People usually shot down my attempt to be positive, and for the most part I never let them steal my joy. But after a while, the positive shit is for the birds, and you simply just want to be mad or depressed. Even if only for a little while. BUT that mad/sad/depressed/oh woe is me attitude gets you now where in life.
Like Mr. Churchill said "a pessimist finds difficulty in every opportunity" and I concur! Any body can look at any given task and find 1001 things wrong with it and 1001 more reasons why they can't complete said task. But "an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty" and basically taking the bull by the horns and saying that this problem will not get the best of me, i can and will succeed!
Sometime last summer I decided that is what I was going to do. I stopped feeling sorry for myself and started to look at everyday on this earth as a true blessing from GOD. Now, I can honestly say that I am on the road to pure happiness. Granted everything isn't going to be perfect but i have to handle situations in a positive light because I know positive results will follow.
So with that, I encourage the world to hold on to your rose colored shades and look through them as often as possible because if you look at every opportunity as a difficult one then you'll never know when you finally overcome difficult!
MsSuga
Ok. I was reading my sisters latest blog talesofahfg.blogspot.com and this quote stuck out to me. I felt the need to write so...here I go.
I have always been a positive person, always tried to see the silver lining on every gray cloud that came my way or crossed the paths of those close to me. People usually shot down my attempt to be positive, and for the most part I never let them steal my joy. But after a while, the positive shit is for the birds, and you simply just want to be mad or depressed. Even if only for a little while. BUT that mad/sad/depressed/oh woe is me attitude gets you now where in life.
Like Mr. Churchill said "a pessimist finds difficulty in every opportunity" and I concur! Any body can look at any given task and find 1001 things wrong with it and 1001 more reasons why they can't complete said task. But "an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty" and basically taking the bull by the horns and saying that this problem will not get the best of me, i can and will succeed!
Sometime last summer I decided that is what I was going to do. I stopped feeling sorry for myself and started to look at everyday on this earth as a true blessing from GOD. Now, I can honestly say that I am on the road to pure happiness. Granted everything isn't going to be perfect but i have to handle situations in a positive light because I know positive results will follow.
So with that, I encourage the world to hold on to your rose colored shades and look through them as often as possible because if you look at every opportunity as a difficult one then you'll never know when you finally overcome difficult!
MsSuga
Thursday, January 14, 2010
Proud to be an American
Ok so idk about ya'll but i am beyond proud of how the world is coming together to help the people of Haiti! After Katrina i know we prayed that there wouldn't be any more horrific acts of nature because honestly New Orleans still hasn't healed from that destruction but to see how fast and how willing people are to help the Haitians is a miracle!
Our local radio station x1023 started a supply yesterday that was just supposed to last a few hours and it's STILL going strong!!
My job has started a supply drive to be shipped out at the end of this week and then another shipment will go out next week.
It's beautiful to see that even in our hard times we can scape together to help others who desparately need it!!
I am truly honored to say that I AM PROUD TO BE AN AMERICAN!
Are You?
Our local radio station x1023 started a supply yesterday that was just supposed to last a few hours and it's STILL going strong!!
My job has started a supply drive to be shipped out at the end of this week and then another shipment will go out next week.
It's beautiful to see that even in our hard times we can scape together to help others who desparately need it!!
I am truly honored to say that I AM PROUD TO BE AN AMERICAN!
Are You?
Intro
Greetings World!
Thanks for stoppin by to read this Lyrical Sweet Tooth. First of all I am MsSuga i reside @ the bottom of the map in Sunny South Florida! Ever since i can remember i always wanted to be a writer. but i never took any steps to getting there. With that i tell u this...This is my FIRST EVER blog!! I've never done anything like this before so bare with me. If you dont like anything i say then you can kick rocks and get off my spot!
My desire to blog has come from me wanting to spread the positivity that i have building up inside of me. I've come along way in my short life time and mentally i need to help others as well. So these blogs are going to be whatever I FEEL LIKE talking about. There may be several explitives at times but thats just me!
Feel free to comment on any and everything i write, im practicing on how to take, accept and utilize constructive criticisim so dont hold back because i sure as hell wont! If theres anything you want to ask me or you want me to blog about feel free to hit me via email MsSuga1910@gmail.com and I'll try to get that done for you.
You can also find me on twitter.com/MsSuga1910 follow me and i'll follow you back!!
So let's have some fun!!
xoxoxoxo
~MsSuga~
Thanks for stoppin by to read this Lyrical Sweet Tooth. First of all I am MsSuga i reside @ the bottom of the map in Sunny South Florida! Ever since i can remember i always wanted to be a writer. but i never took any steps to getting there. With that i tell u this...This is my FIRST EVER blog!! I've never done anything like this before so bare with me. If you dont like anything i say then you can kick rocks and get off my spot!
My desire to blog has come from me wanting to spread the positivity that i have building up inside of me. I've come along way in my short life time and mentally i need to help others as well. So these blogs are going to be whatever I FEEL LIKE talking about. There may be several explitives at times but thats just me!
Feel free to comment on any and everything i write, im practicing on how to take, accept and utilize constructive criticisim so dont hold back because i sure as hell wont! If theres anything you want to ask me or you want me to blog about feel free to hit me via email MsSuga1910@gmail.com and I'll try to get that done for you.
You can also find me on twitter.com/MsSuga1910 follow me and i'll follow you back!!
So let's have some fun!!
xoxoxoxo
~MsSuga~
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